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Joined October 2013
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Let the boys be boys,and let the men be MEN✨
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Being good in bed with one woman doesn’t mean you’ll be good with another. Women may share anatomy, but not the same emotional needs or desires. Men deserve appreciation too. Great sex is a two-way street; nobody wants to feel like they’re with a log of wood.🤭🤭🤭
Being good in bed should be a basic requirement, not something a man expects to be praised for.
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Imagine how much happier we’d be if we stopped treating being alone as something to fear. It’s okay to be single, to choose yourself, and to live life on your own terms. You don’t need to be desired by everyone. You’re not for everybody, just as everybody isn’t for you.
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It’s not high libido, it’s emotional attachment. You’re either lucky to find someone who turns that connection into a lifetime of love, or you end up with someone who sees you as a playground, says the right words to access your body, and keeps you in a repetitive cycle.
You end up having a high libido that only the man who introduced you to good sex can feed.
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There’s something deeply beautiful about two people who know how to care for a home and for each other.Both cooks and cleans and take care of business.Neither waits to be asked. The best kind of partnership is when two people make life lighter for each other. That’s gold. ✨
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Nothing goes unresolved when you speak through music…..send her/him that song that speaks your heart language ..
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Wanting someone badly while knowing you absolutely should NOT reach out is such a humbling experience. Because why am I fighting for my dignity when my body is screaming their name? 😭
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You are not for everyone,Everyone is not for you!!Read again
Some people will call it a grudge simply because they don't like the boundary you set. Protecting your peace isn't bitterness. It's knowing when enough is enough.
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The more we live,the more we learn.
Being attracted to someone doesn’t mean you should date them. Some people are only good for sex.
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A loyal domesticated Pussy💦💦
What’s the perfect gift for a man that he’ll never forget?
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No one speaks enough on how attractive being bold sexually is to the opposite sex🔥
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This was never easy
flirting is easy until you have to flirt with someone you actually want.
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The good old days💔
I fucking love it when people make it painfully obvious they’re into you.
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Because they don’t just want to know. They want to hear her say it with her own mouth so the pain can be real.
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So they can finally stop making excuses for her. So they can have a clear reason to turn cold. So they can stay… but now with permission to punish her emotionally.
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Valid question. But let’s keep the same energy on the other side too:🔥🔥 Before she accepts your ring, she should also ask: “If I lost my looks, my body, my peace, and my ability to make life easy for him… would he still choose me?”😒
Before you put a ring on her finger, ask yourself: if you had nothing, no money, no status, no success, would she still choose you? If the answer isn't a solid "yes" she's not the one.
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Because too many men only love women while they’re useful, beautiful, and low-maintenance.
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Love without boundaries isn’t love… It’s self-abandonment with extra steps👍🏽
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You can’t keep saying “I love them” while letting them disrespect you, ignore your needs, and treat your heart like an all-you-can-eat buffet.🤮
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Because some men genuinely believe money is a personality.
Nothing confuses a man more than having money and still being rejected by women.
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They show up with cash, zero effort, bad attitude, and think “she should be grateful.” Then when she says no, their whole world view shatters.
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When the good morning texts turn into “seen” at 2pm. When “I miss you” becomes radio silence for days. When they start saying “I need space” but you can feel them emotionally checking out and lining up the next option. When their energy screams “I’m single in my head, I just haven’t dumped you yet.”😩
Tell me it’s over without telling me it’s over…
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The relationship doesn’t always die with a loud fight. Sometimes it dies quietly while you’re still there begging for crumbs from someone who already left emotionally.😕
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Ladies!!! This is not a fairytale. That’s the bare minimum.
You will marry a man who never stops trying to win your heart, even after he already has it.
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The real ones? They keep choosing you every single day ,not because they have to, but because they want to.
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Sadly they care, they just care more about protecting themselves than they do about not hurting you.😒
Most people think avoidants are just “people who don’t care.” They’re not. They usually care a lot but they just don’t trust closeness.
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They’ll pull you in deep, make you feel safe, then disappear the second it starts feeling real. Then call it “I need space” or “I’m just an avoidant.”
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