nivek | Google Dev Expert • Angular

i think one of the biggest mistakes we've made as a society is convincing people that starting a family is something you do only after you've figured out everything else in your life we've taught young people that first you get your degree, then you find a good job, then you work on your career and become successful, then you need enough money to buy a house, travel, enjoy life, go out with friends because 30 is still young, and only when you turn 40, maybe, you can start thinking about having children i understand why people would think this way. that's what they've been told since they were born, and obviously you want to be able to provide for your children and give them a good life. but somewhere along the way we've completely reversed the order of things. marriage and children used to be part of the process of becoming an adult, not what you do when you think you've arrived family used to be something you built your life around my father always told me that you should never look for reasons not to have kids, otherwise you'll never have them. he was unemployed when he had his first. now he has seven and none of us missed out on anything. we got to a point where having kids is something you're supposed to do once you've already built your life, old and tired. we have our priorities backwards we force people to spend the most fertile years of their lives preparing for a future that never arrives for most of them having kids is the thing that makes your life worth it in the first place